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1. I like my eyes (except for the glasses/contactswearing but eh)
2. I’ve got good selfdiscipline.
3. My writing’s pretty decent.
4. I’m occasionally funny.
5. I’m academically smart.
I TAG EVERYONE WHO FEELS LIKE DOING IT AND HASN’T ALREADY DONE SO.
ugh, like there is LITERALLY no canonical evidence for the ~han solo: space womanizer~ head canon. like, when he first meets the ONE female character in the entire series that he interacts with he is GROUCHY and SHOUTY at her, not sauve and dashing. she thinks he is a tool and tells him this multiple times. not really smooth and charming.
he then takes to following her around on Hoth and practically pulling her pigtails asking ” DO YOU LIKE ME? YES/NO? (PLS SAY YES)” with hearts in his eyes. (Chewie probably had to throw out like a HALF DOZEN old notebooks that were filled with awful power ballads/poetry/odes to her and “Mr. Han Organa” written in different fonts)
when it comes to the iconic ‘i know’ in response to Leia’s proclamation of love, Ford has stated that it’s out of PURE CONCERN for HER FEELINGS (“the point is that I’m not worried about myself anymore, I’m worried about her” - DIRECT QUOTE), it was NOT a ‘boss’ move or ‘so swagtastic it hurts’ it was an apology that he couldn’t be there for her, it was an attempt to make her smile, to make it hurt less than if he had said the words too and then was forced to leave her. (not that he would have been much help; remember that han solo spends the majority of the 3rd film mostly blind and feeble, unable to take care of himself and generally getting in the way while Leia Gets Shit Done)
when he does say the words, it’s with the most adoring and awestruck expression. those words are fused with more than just love and respect. he’s almost HONOURED that he gets to love this badass babe and that she allows him to exist in her orbit.
AND THEN he loves Leia so much that he’s willing to step aside so she can be happy with the man he believes she wants. and valuing a woman’s choices and feelings over your own is not exactly womanizing behaviour - so where did this headcanon come from??
#THANK BABY JESUS FOR THIS POST#i am so fucking sick of nerd dudes taking every admirable or cool male character and saying#HE MUST BE DROWNING IN LADIES#SO SMOOTH#RICO SUAVE#TOO COOL TO CARE ABOUT LADY FEELINGS#like literally fuck all the way off#these characters are canonically awesome and cool and smart and heroic#AND SWEETHEARTS TO THE WOMEN THEY FALL FOR#lookin @ u jim kirk#lookin @ u john sheppard#staring directly into ur eyes han solo
Okay since John Sheppard was mentioned in that list o’tags, one of the things that bothers me about Stargate Atlantis:
WHY does McKay regularly complain about Sheppard doing his ‘Kirk thing’ or tell him off for saying hello to Jeannie? Sheppard isn’t doing any Kirk thing, he rarely flirts with women and when he does get flirty with a woman it’s someone like Larrin who ties him to a chair and waves a knife in his face.
When he was working under Weir and Carter he never tried to pull any suave flirty shit, when he was convincing Teyla to join Team Atlantis he was like ‘hey you know about the Wraith and this galaxy and you can fight so you’re pretty useful, wanna join?’ and then they became BFFs without any suave flirty shit from John’s side.
The only one who thinks Sheppard is doing suave flirty shit is McKay, and that says more about McKay than Sheppard. Clearly, as far as McKay is concerned, being able to talk to a woman without her getting annoyed with you = being a flirty Space Casanova.
Basically McKay is terrible at social stuff and Sheppard might be a dork but at least he’s a dork with social skills.
I HAVE SEVERE ANXIETY AND I ALMOST HAD A FUCKING PANIC ATTACK BECAUSE OF YOU FUCKS AND I’M PISSED THAT PEOPLE ARE STILL SPREADING IT AROUND. IT’S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN.